I had two daughters that I didn’t want raped so I trained them not to get into compromising positions. I had a son who was trained not to take any girl by force for any reason. What’s the big deal?
I was raped by a drunken step father at 12 and ran for my life to my grandmother’s house. I was in boarding school at that time and went to my mother’s apartment after curfew. I was beaten pretty badly but was told never to tell anyone as Christian girls do not get raped. She cleaned me up and put me in a cab the next day back to school. I was told to call her when I got my period and I did and it took me a year before I wondered what would have happened had I missed one. My grandmother told me years later than I would not have to pay the consequences of this action. I knew then what she meant.
I kept my secret and did not even tell my husband as he was the son of a baptist minister. My girls and son had all the warnings I could give them and so far no rapes and no unwanted pregnancies. I have two adult grandkids all happy, healty and doing great in their lives.